Trans people don’t owe you shit.
Can allies please stop sending me anon messages telling me stories about how they defended trans people or some shit and asking me what I think of it? Like what do you want a fucking cookie or a pat on the back?
Anonymous said: I have a friend that is going through the transition now. She's been my best friend for as long as I can remember, so in an effort to support her I really want to educate myself on the subject. How long does transition take, generally? I mean the biological part, obviously. Um, are there any other websites I could check out? I've known her as Jason for 17 years, so what should I do if I accidentally call her that instead of Jessie? I really don't want to offend her because I love her to death
Your first question confuses me.
Just let her know that you’re trying your best, and apologise when you mess up her pronouns/name. And actually try.
I dont think so. Besides there is no reason trans women and trans men should be throwing each other under the bus thinking one is more privileged than the other.
But trans men are??? because they’re men, and men are more privileged than women. And then there’s also race. Do you really think a trans woman of color has the same privilege as a white trans man? In the queer community there is also a history of there being more visibility for trans men and trans men speaking over trans women.
trans men who follow this blog out weigh the trans women and that worries me. But considering how the trans, queer, and lgbtqa community has fucked over trans women time and time again, I’m not surprised.
mistys-world-of-wonder said: For some reason, I read your url as "trainsgender" first time I saw it
cottonball40 said: If your transgender an have kids someone take them away cause u care about no one but your self
I’m curious as to who follows me.
If you could, reply to this letting me know whether you’re trans, cis, etc.